Setting Internet Rules at Home
It is not easy to set rules on internet use for children when the parents themselves are not aware of the dangers of irresponsible internet use. Parents should first teach themselves about the internet’s benefits and dangers when it comes to their children. Through this education, they can appropriately set clear and doable rules for their children’s internet activities. It is a must that children are aware of the limits on the kinds of sites that they could visit, online etiquette, duration of internet use, information that can be shared online, etc.
All of my four children are frequently using the internet. I have three teenage girls, aged 14 to 18, who use it mainly for research and for social networking. The youngest, an 11-year old boy, enjoys playing games on social media sites. Their first exposure to the online community was about four or five years ago. That was when our family had, for the first time, access to the internet via dial-up. They were very curious at first, and then later, they discovered the benefits of doing research on line and the thrill of social networking.
It was to our family’s benefit that I was exposed to the internet before my children. It gave me enough knowledge about how to manage their online activities. I can say that the most difficult area of control among my children is for them to set limits on their time of use. As with a majority of children, social networking and online gaming can be addicting. Once they are hooked on these, it is very hard for them to stop.
